Like many other islanders, including Hawaiians, people believe that the sins of the father will fall upon the children. If a child is sick, the parents are suspected of quarreling or misconduct. In addition to sickness, social disorder could cause sterility of land or other disasters.
Harmony could be restored only by confession
Its a practice of extended family members meeting to "make right" broken family relations. Some families met daily or weekly, to prevent problems from erupting. Others met when a person became ill, believing that illness was caused by the stress of anger, guilt, recriminations and lack of forgiveness.when any of the children in are ill, the grandmother ask the parents, "What have you done?" They believed that healing could come only with complete forgiveness of the whole family.
Hoʻoponopono corrects, restores and maintains good relationships among family members. Usually the most senior member of the family conducts it. He or she gathers the family together. If the family is unable to work through a problem, they turn to a respected outsider.
The process begins with prayer. A statement of
the problem is made, and the transgression discussed. Family members
are expected to work problems through and cooperate, not "hold
fast to the fault". One or more periods of silence may be taken
for reflection on the entanglement of emotions and injuries.
Everyone's feelings are acknowledged. Then confession, repentance and
forgiveness take place. Everyone releases (kala)
each other, letting go. They cut off the past (ʻoki),
and together they close the event with a ceremonial feast, called
which often included eating limu kala
or symbolic of the release.
So, Since we are a big Human Family all togehther here on Earth we have to be able to ask eachother questions about anything we feel like is going wrong.
Secrecy is an illness and death in the end.
This is the right of every single Human the right of our existence to get to know the truth and make a decition based on the truth.
I belive we have to be straight and ask Questions and use our rights.
I belive Kilauea Volcano Hawaii is telling us
something very important.
So please get together and ask, confess, apologize from the Heart, forgive and Love.
I Love You, I'm Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You.
From my heart to yours.